If you have to ask, the answer is probably no! I don’t want to be responsible for advising you to try something that might or might not work. It might not work! If it doesn’t, you’ve got to be able to accept that you tried your best, be willing to accept the consequences… and be prepared to blame nobody, not yourself, not your circumstances, not your ….! I can say no more… other than to stress that, despite what anyone or anything may try to tell you, you have freedom of choice today!