The foundation of a house should be solid, but the foundation for a person’s identity should be fluid and adaptable. It’s fine to find reassurance in success or self-confidence. But what if you have a day when you fail or your trust is broken or your confidence falters? Where do you turn for comfort then? That’s why the house’s foundation just needs to hold fast, to weather every storm, but yours and mine need to be elastic. Do you feel your foundations shifting? You’re just growing into a new phase. Take comfort in the change.