With application and aptitude, we can achieve almost anything we want. Even mountains can be moved when we’re ready to work very hard for a very long time. But, extraordinary feats are almost always easier when we’ve got help at hand.
No one would ever expect you to make the huge change you’re contemplating on your own. Since you’ve reached a point that will define the path your life takes from now on, if you can bring yourself to ask for help, it’s yours… and, with it, success will come.