Speech is the most obvious way that humans communicate. Yet even if we share the same language, there’s no guarantee that we really understand each other. We’re so caught up in acceptable behaviour patterns that we obfuscate our feelings behind conduct that’s based on a deep urge to be liked. We have a strong desire to feel part of something – so we learn how to harmonise. In the area of your life where there seems to be much confusion, if you focus on what you need, you’ll discover clarity.