Change is challenging. We want it, but we want the kind that we feel we can control. We certainly don’t want too much to change too fast. If it happens when we’re not looking (as if often does), or in a way that we hadn’t imagined (which it always does) we feel overwhelmed. We want just the right amount of it in our lives, not too much and not too little. There’s somewhere in your life where you’re applying psychological brakes. If you ease them off, the transformation will be just what you can cope with.