It’s easy to turn a small matter into something critical. Or trivialise a situation that deserves more of our attention. What really counts is just doing ‘enough’ to make a difference. It involves the art of finding a balance between doing too much and too little – and finding this critical point of equilibrium takes practice. The first indication that you’ve found it is when things start to go well. It may well be that your current dilemma will take less energy to solve than you think. Go gently today.