This isn’t a bad thing

We don’t notice that we’ve become set in our ways. Whether it happens through convenience or habit, if you take a moment to consider, you might be surprised at how much of your life’s dictated by convention. This isn’t a bad thing. But it’s worth noticing. Just because something is convenient doesn’t mean it can’t […]

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It’s OK to admit that life isn’t perfect

It’s OK to admit that life isn’t perfect. And, it’s important to remember that things aren’t always what they first seem. From a distance, a bird resembles an airplane. And, the shadowy fingers reaching across your childhood window were only ever shadows made by trees. So, the situation you’re worried about isn’t as bad as […]

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333 – vill du hänga med?

Under 2016-2017 har jag genom en total livsstilsförändring minskat 10 klädstorlekar (från 48 till 38), jag har hittat en balans mellan arbete och fritid och jag har blivit så mycket bättre på att sätta gränser mm. Mitt välmående är på topp! Jag beslutade mig 2015 för att jag skulle gå ner 50 kilo innan jag […]

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Life is colourful but still…

People have a way of choosing to see the world in black and white. If they believe something then they believe it absolutely. The notion that they could be even partially wrong is unthinkable to them. But often, when someone puts forth an argument that effectively knocks their certainty, it’s enough to engender a complete […]

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Som chef är det din skyldighet…

att föregå med gott exempel för hur dina medarbetare ska behandla varandra (tycker jag i alla fall). Om du har svårt för att ta emot feedback, uppträder aggressivt eller snackar skit om dina medarbetare inför plenum sätter du scenen för en riktigt dålig arbetsmiljö. Om du däremot ber om feedback, håller dig lugn och motar […]

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And the penalty for failing to solve these puzzles?

Life sometimes seems complicated. There’s so much to understand and remember. Often, days feel like intelligence tests, designed to challenge our discrimination and perception. And the penalty for failing to solve these puzzles? Strangely, often as not, the only penalty’s the sense of self-reproach. We feel glum because we sense that we could have done […]

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You don’t owe anyone an explanation

You’re expecting great things, and putting a lot of faith into your expectations. Although you’re confident that things will go the way you want, other people want you to explain the reasons for your hopefulness. Could they be envious of your certainty? In truth, there are no specific reasons for how you’re feeling. That’s just […]

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